It's been a little while since I think I've done a nursing update with Lena, so I thought I would do just that. Currently, we are still nursing, but the volume has decreased drastically. We had a nasty bout with mastitis that somehow motivated me to start weaning. Or maybe it was that she was over 2 and she was showing signs that she could handle it too. But there's nothing like the flu like symptoms of mastitis to make you reevaluate how things are going.
So currently we nurse only 2 to 3 sessions per day. One at the beginning of nap, one at bed time and the other may happen at wake up for the day like it did today, or in the middle of the night or in a moment where its just needed. But to go from 8ish nursing sessions to this feels like a different life, and a different baby.
And she is a different baby, or toddler rather. She used to not be able to sleep in her own bed very well, but sandwiched between her brothers in her new room it seems to be going better, its not fool proof and at times she does wake up, but it seems more and more that if she does, she just finds her way over to my room and bed and curls up next to me not insisting to nurse. This is so different from how she was the first two years of life, I'm not even sure what to say. But the curling up next to me, I find endearing, because she is definitely still snuggly and that it doesn't come with any other expectations than that I can handle that.
I want to say her appetite is better with decreased nursing, but I have to say its still about the same. Honestly, I think at least all my toddlers are just toddlers about food, sometimes they eat it sometimes they don't. The one thing is she does seem to finally like cow's milk. So that's at least something different.
She's able to be comforted now just by touch and this is really nice as well. That screaming 20 month old that would not except anything but nursing is no longer here, and in some ways I'm sad, but in some ways I'm glad to be through this stage as it makes taking her places a bit more manageable.
And that is where we are at, still nursing at 25 months, but much less and so it feels weaning has begun if only by circumstance and a little bit of maturity on her part.
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